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I am just wondering what you guys do when your friends/family don't approve of you breastfeeding after a year. I have a good friend but she is starting to wear on me because every time she comes over she asks me when I'm going to wean my 22 month old. She doesn't accept the answer that weaning starts the day you begin feeding them solids. My in-laws are the same way, luckily they live half way across the country.
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Re: when friends/family don't approve of breastfeeding
Thu, October 1, 2009 - 10:31 PMsay, "you know what? our breastfeeding relationship is special & it's none of your business when or if we stop. we are both happy with the way things are & i'd appreciate it if you'd cease with the invasive questions."
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Re: when friends/family don't approve of breastfeeding
Fri, October 2, 2009 - 7:16 AMI answer that the World Health Organization and Canadian Medical Association recommend breastfeeding until the child is at least two.
I like IxChel's answer. I usually say something like, "There's something called readiness and our son will let us know when he's ready to be completely weaned."
And you are totally right, weaning starts the minute they eat rice cereal and begin using their own sippy cup. Weaning is not a weekend process it takes months and every family has to do it the way they feel works for them.
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Re: when friends/family don't approve of breastfeeding
Fri, October 2, 2009 - 12:59 PMyoure nicer than me Mel. I wouldnt have a friend that had their nose in my biz-nass like that.